..."one day at a time"… I know I haven't written in a while.. and while I wish this wasn’t the case, it is and apologizing or beating myself up about it wont make a difference… lol… Although I know that its true, I'm still kinda sorry to have left y’all hanging with no prior warning, that is very bad blogger etiquette.
Now that apologies have been taken care of, the reason for my hiatus? Life. No really, I’ve been dealing with and sorting out a lot of things much to the neglect of my little blog… and most people would probably think, “Great, you’ve been going through stuff- good resource for material to put up” right? Wrong? Lol.. its not the kind of stuff I feel like sharing on hare, especially not at the moment, maybe later when it’s all resolved I will indulge y’all in a little bit of the gist, but whilst I’m still working things out… I’ll have to be quiet for now anyways.
Okay so what to write in the absence of ‘real life’ stuff..? well summer school is over now (I think the last time I posted something I was in physics class..lol) thing is that non-summer school started two weeks ago (guess I have been gone for longer than a minute, huh?). Hmmm… I guess I’ll just talk about random stuff.. So like did anyone see Chris Breezy’s interview on CNN last night?? I didn’t get to see it yet… doubt I even will at all (can't stand Brown) but heard the interview was wack… Like I think dude needs to go somewhere for a long time and come back when people have forgotten about the whole woman bashing incident… say in about 20 years? He just needs to shut up and keep a low profile.. and he’s trying to say he still loves Rhianna… He’s not afraid.. How the hell does a guy beat up a female he claims to love or have feelings for? How does a guy lay his hands on a woman period? You know what? I don’t even want to know, because there is no acceptable explanation. None. So what if she cheated (not that Ri-ri did… I’m just saying) was over-possessive, promiscuous, irritating, rude… whatever. Homie shoulda known all this before he went out with her, and if he didn’t tough. Guess someone didn’t do their homework.
At the same time, you could say that why would a girl go out with such an individual, like someone who harbored such violent tendencies towards women? Well, for one, I could say maybe she didn’t know, plus like women like to believe the best about people so maybe even if she knew, she thought he would change?? I don’t know! I’m just speculating, rationalizing, trying to come up with a theory. I feel like actions are more easily controlled than feelings.. Like Rhianna maybe couldn’t help the fact that she felt for him, and he couldn’t the fact that he had aggressive thoughts towards her (lol), however he could have made a choice not to hit her or to do her face in… he could have adopted some kind of defense mechanism, such as repression, projection, displacement, reaction formation or something! That’s my thoughts on the issue at the moment anyways. Didn’t think I’d say so much on that, but oh well. Guess that’s my post for today. Haha. So the moral of the story is… do your homework people!.lol. and guys, it is unacceptable to beat up a woman, under any circumstances. If you feel she deserves a beat down, get another female to do it! :-)
~*~le_toujours_sexy~*~
.oao.
