Why do (good) girls like 'bad boys'? Guys that disrespect and treat them like crap? Guys who belittle them, laugh at their dreams and make them feel worthless, unattractive and like shit? They hold on to these guys and let the 'good' (or should I say better? cos I don't believe any guy is 100% good, he's probably just better than the next) slip away?
"I refuse to be a statistic". haha. At the risk of 'chasing' any potential guys away...lmao.. like really though.. They say that it's 'love' and that it's one of those circumstances where the heart neither listens to nor sees reason and fails to think logically... Well i say f**k that. Broken hearts, painful as they may be (and i know quite a bit about 'heartbreak'/heartache).. heal with time. They may leave behind scars, some of which may be permanent, but scars fade with time and become 'less visible'... And I believe that when the right person comes along... i.e. when you find 'true/real love' (whatever that its... if it really does exist) they will make you forget all about the pain and negativity you endured... but if you stick with the wrong person, 'because you don't want to be lonely'.. you rob yourself of that opportunity. I'm not saying that this so called true love is guaranteed, or that you will find it when you want... all i'm saying is that it is better to try to look for it and fail, than not to try at all... that's my position on the subject anyways.. and its also better to be alone, than to be with someone who you know in your heart is not right for you... someone who you wake up every morning asking yourself why....lol
So who is the right person? What qualities/traits/characteristics does he/she have? What is true love supposed to be or feel like? I shall address all these questions in a later post.. (yes, i'm keeping y'all in suspense so you come back..haha..jokes.) But all I can say right now is that all those things mean different things to different people at different times.. (does that make sense??lol). And finding someone whose ideals fit yours (not necessarily being identical or congrual to yours) is a step in the forward direction.
Basically, all i'm trying to convey/say is that you should not put up with some idiot's b.s in the name of love... because that's just #lame..haha
Anyways... I gotta go to the gym now... Apparently (apparently) I'm starting to become/look fat..? that sucks ass... and is highly depressing... and it's like the more i try to starve myself, the worse it gets (apparently).. anyways... i shall moan about my body issues later.
Oh, and btw this post is not about anybody in particular... just been doing a little thinking lately, that's all..
~*~the ever sexy (despite what the haters and critics say..)~*~
.oao.
I think the reason girls stay with these type of guys is because they are afraid. They are possessed by the 'spirit of fear' and as such, they are afraid of being lonely, afraid they might not find someone else, afraid of the guy himself and some others are 'stupidly/blindly in love'. Looking forward to the follow up of this post. Xxx
ReplyDeletei totally agree... fear in general (whether of the guy hurting em or being alone) is probably the most common reason for 'blind love'.. it's sad really.. maybe that's one of the reasons i'm 'scared of love'..hmm..lol.. working on the follow up post.. thanks for the feedback! :-D
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